Monday, May 26, 2014

146/365 : If Your Sexuality Scares You



treat it like a child
seeking sweet asylum from pronouncing words right
or choosing the right ones at all

let yourself, instead, get better at tumbling
fumbling for the truth of 
what turns you hot and happy

let yourself get messy--
you don't have to do so in public
not even with others quite yet

you can start in your bedroom
all alone with the hum of
your most tantalizing music

you can start by letting 
one honest wish 
fall out of your lips

you can start
by imagining
you're meant for it

that you wouldn't want it
if it didn't want you back
and mutuality is heaven in the sack

if you've gotten this far
and you're ready for more
you can dress yourself as a lover

in the colors and underwear
of a sensual lust affair
with your most turned-on libido

begin with your own recalibrating
unlock the knob of
your turn table

you won't be able to make all the music alone
but, at first, you can bang the drums
let them know you're ready

and then, with the steady rhythm
of your song, bouncing off you
like a love charm

you will draw near
your most resonant
peers

if this scares you 
because you already have a mate
or you think it might change your fate

'cuz perhaps you like your own gender
or you wanna be
a gender bender

or you might have to stop pretending
that whatever ways you've been spending
your sensuality, is true

because you're afraid 
this might cause conflict
or worse, that you're not worth it

because you think there's not possibly
someone else who's meant to be
licking you from head-to-toe

meeting you in your favorite flow
because you think you're not allowed
to have a favorite

because maybe all of this lovin'
would require you
to melt more

i say to you this:
MELT

become like caramel cream
deep dazzle finger-licking
sweet saucified surrender

even if there's nowhere to put it
no a la mode to match
your flow, quite yet

it will still feel better than 
cold and chewy
scared and unwilling to soften

boxed and packaged inside 
a crafted image of love
i say to you this:

show up for us 
as you most long to be
let us receive you

like a born-again-virgin
paint us your fantasy
of earnest perfection

we'll get it wrong
undoubtedly
so will you

but naming and claiming will be 
the beginning of knowing 
your pleasure is not to be feared

you are not weird for 
wanting connection
you are sexy

you are not wrong for
wanting bodily belonging
you are ready

to be met in your aliveness
wet and desirous 
or intimate quietness

you are ready
to be met
all the way

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